With Valentines’ Day coming soon—Love is in the Air! Yet, this can be a difficult time for the “single ladies”; especially if you’re desperately seeking love and waiting on Mr. Right. Don’t Fret! There’s tons you can do while you’re single. And the most essential action is focusing on YOU—learning to love yourself better! So, when it is time for you to enter into a union, it is built on a solid foundation of LOVE. Here’s 3 Things To Do When You’re Single (and waiting for Love)!
Heal & Forgive
deal with past relationship hurts & let go of baggage
Let’s face it, although there’s great benefits in being in a relationship. There can also be a great deal of stress and sacrifice with trying to “make it work”! And if you were in a toxic and/or abusive relationship–it’s time for you to Heal & Forgive. The Healing process will allow you to release “negative baggage” and become a more healthier, and balanced person for a relationship in the future. Remember, what we don’t heal…we repeat!
plan for a relationship/family in the future
I know the single life can be a lot of fun. You’re enjoying your new taste of freedom and hanging out with “your girls”! Yet, its essential to stay focused on the larger picture . Don’t get so wrapped up in the “single life” and having fun that you self-destruct! If you know you want a family and/or partner in the future. Then, you won’t be single forever! So, plan for a more “family-oriented” lifestyle, while you’re enjoying life “flying solo”! Make sure you have something to bring to the table!
know you don’t have to Wait for love—Love Yourself First
Don’t spend your days looking for your “night and shinning armor” to arrive. Love Yourself, Honey! And don’t put your life on hold. Start learning to Love Yourself better. You don’t have to rush into a New relationship to beat some “biological clock”. Take this time to improve Yourself! To find true love, you must Love Yourself First–Practice Self-Love!