Have the Strength to Walk Away From People That Are Toxic to Your Heart & Soul. – Loveselfme
Toxic people are like “energy vampires”! They will drain your positive energy and leave you emotionally drained. And more importantly they will block your Path to Living a Happy “Drama-Free” Life! lf you think that you are dealing with a “Toxic Person”, hit the Door and RUN!
The emotional battle is not worth your time and/or effort to attempt to build a relationship and/or a connection with these individuals. In the end, they will only think about themselves–leaving you confused and feeling betrayed. Here’s 7 Signs to Spot a Toxic Person!
They like and need to compete with you or others to feel worthy and good about themselves. They will even go to they lengths of sabotaging others to feel victorious. This is not just “friendly competition” or comparing, their jealousy is set-in and cruel.
2. Passive Aggressive
Toxic people will secretly provoke and antagonize others for their pure enjoyment. They like to insight Drama and confusion. And often they will used passive aggressive behavior as a form of “payback”.
3. Controlling and Manipulation
It’s all about them. These “negative” souls must feel like they are in Control. Some of their tactics will be guilt-trips, insults, intimidation, manipulation; and even “bullying”. Also, they are willing to flat-out “lie” and tell untruths to keep control.
4. Selfish and Egotistical
Toxic people are very Self-Centered and Selfish. They have an unhealthy, often delusional sense of self-worth. They build false friendships and relationships based on what they “think” they can get from people.
5. Refuses to Admit Fault
They never admit responsibility for their “negative” behavior. And will often times find a way to point the finger back at you and/or play the “victim”. If they do, take responsibility, it usually disingenuous–a “power move” to further their self-centered agenda.
6. Disingenuous and two-faced
Toxic people are often disingenuous and two-faced, playing the “game” to lure unsuspecting victims. They also like to protect their “image” and persona. Much like a con artist playing the part–hiding their true “self ” and agenda.
7. Uses “good deeds” as a Front
If you back toxic people up in a corner, perhaps you called them out on their behavior (and said enough is enough). They will use gifts, good deeds and “act nice” as a way to cover-up and hide their “negative” behavior. This is much like an abusive man (or woman) buying gifts after battering their partner–this is a “good deed”. Yet, the “giving” is not genuine. And it certainly doesn’t excuse their behavior.
These 7 Sings will help You Spot a Toxic Person. If you think you are dealing with a toxic person who has one or more of these Signs, Proceed with CAUTION!